How to write a message of sympathy in a memory book
Memory Books are a wonderful way of capturing stories about loved ones who have passed. However, when it comes to putting pen to paper and actually writing about someone we loved who is no longer with us can be daunting.
What if I am not a good writer? I can never think of what to write!
If you are asked to contribute to a Memory Book via email or you are invited to attend an event where you know there will be a memory book, don't worry! Be prepared grab some paper and jot down some notes to help:
- memory of your times spent together
- what you will miss about them
- what you loved about your loved one (personality or traits)
- funny things they did or said (it's okay to be funny, it evokes memories)
- how they made you feel when you spent time with them
Don't over think it, write the way you speak and your message will turn out beautifully.
If you are staring at the blank paper and the thought of writing has you stumped just say the story or words in your head then write those words down. Imagine you telling someone the story and write it as you tell it, it will be more real and will truly be a heartfelt message appreciated by all who read it.
When I had to write the eulogy for my own Mums memorial service I knew I would struggle to hold it together so I recorded myself speaking on my phone voice memo app and then played it back. I then wrote down my words as I listenned which for me helped get the words on paper.
Good luck and whatever you write will be part of a meaningful gift that will be cherished by your loved ones family for years to come.
